The 3 R’s
Rant, Reframe, Radiate
Transformation starts with fire. I Rant to uncover the raw truth. I Reframe to challenge what’s not working. I Radiate to spread empathy, purpose, and action.
Inspired by the Six Seconds Know Yourself, Choose Yourself, Give Yourself (KCG) EQ framework I use in my work, and grounded in my noble goal to Spark AUDACIOUS Love, this blog is where bold ideas meet radical change.
Or sometimes where I just talk shit on things to feel better and then recenter myself.
EQ Audit #4: WHAT IN THE ASSIMILATIONIST HELL IS THIS?!
We are not one-size-fits-all. We are not a marketing campaign. We are not about to slap a fucking “patriotic” sticker on queer identity like it’s a Jeep Wrangler at a Fourth of July parade.
EQ Audit #3: Steven Webb vs. The Homophobic Hecklers
Steven Webb was in the middle of performing Here You Come Again, a Dolly Parton musical, when some audience members decided to hurl homophobic slurs at him. The show had to be stopped because their hate was so disruptive.
Pause. Let that sink in. Grown adults paid money to see a Dolly Parton show, then had a meltdown over a queer actor. cue Dorothy Zbornak face
Let’s run this situation through an EQ Audit.
EQ Audit #2
🔥 RANT – Because this shit is personal.
🧠 REFRAME – With another EQ Audit to break down just how emotionally bankrupt this move really is.
💡 RADIATE – By Sparking AUDACIOUS Love in the face of their fear, erasure, and control.
EQ Audit #1
I introduce my EQ Audit approach to navigating my emotions in this first 3R’s blog post.